I just realised something about me.
While I was browsing through online and also in boutiques for accessories, bags and wallets, it dawned on me that I do not want my stuff to be "molested" by people. Say if I purchase a gorgeous branded bag for my gubahan, H will have to surrender it to whoever is going to do the deco. In our case, I know who is doing it for him, and frankly I don't really fancy her and her ways. My bag will definitely be tried on and for sure she will open up the buttons/zippers to have a look through. AND not forgetting, to add her snide remarks. She's quite a sour horse. To think that H has already bought me a pair of Chanel earrings and a seasonal Chanel necklace for 1 of his trays for me. I hate to imagine what may happen if H hands them over to her.
H's mum wants their side of the gubahan for me to be done in Singapore (by the-one-person-i-like-the-least), but his aunt prefers in JB. Either way, I really don't like both ideas.
Don't get me wrong.
I have my side of the wedding & planning, and H, has his.
So i reminded myself of what I told myself since the very beginning: Jangan masok campur with his side.
Therefore, for everyone's good, I considered not putting branded bags/wallets/accessories. I was honest and brought my concern to H. What a darling boy. He completely understood where I was coming from and agreed with me. So there we are! (if you are wondering what happened to my Chanels, H said to keep them safely till August - consider it as my birthday gifts! yay!)
Xoxo