Tuesday 16 April 2013

Gubahanku..

I just realised something about me.

While I was browsing through online and also in boutiques for accessories, bags and wallets, it dawned on me that I do not want my stuff to be "molested" by people. Say if I purchase a gorgeous branded bag for my gubahan, H will have to surrender it to whoever is going to do the deco. In our case, I know who is doing it for him, and frankly I don't really fancy her and her ways. My bag will definitely be tried on and for sure she will open up the buttons/zippers to have a look through. AND not forgetting, to add her snide remarks. She's quite a sour horse. To think that H has already bought me a pair of Chanel earrings and a seasonal Chanel necklace for 1 of his trays for me. I hate to imagine what may happen if H hands them over to her.

H's mum wants their side of the gubahan for me to be done in Singapore (by the-one-person-i-like-the-least), but his aunt prefers in JB. Either way, I really don't like both ideas.

Don't get me wrong.

I have my side of the wedding & planning, and H, has his.

So i reminded myself of what I told myself since the very beginning: Jangan masok campur with his side.

Therefore, for everyone's good, I considered not putting branded bags/wallets/accessories. I was honest and brought my concern to H. What a darling boy. He completely understood where I was coming from and agreed with me. So there we are! (if you are wondering what happened to my Chanels, H said to keep them safely till August - consider it as my birthday gifts! yay!)

Xoxo

Tuesday 12 March 2013

messed mind.






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Serabut.

this is whats going on in my head. i know that i (have to) settled on a multi-purpose hall wedding. but when i think hard enough, it is not what i have envisioned where my wedding will be held. now, the annoying shrieky little voice is haunting in my ears going, "Find a hotel! Find a country club!".      

but hey, if there is indeed an indoor venue that gives cheap rent, allows outside caterers & yet still be generous enough to provide logistics as well as waitress service, im sure all brides out there are killing one another for it, no? sigh.

Xoxo


Thursday 21 February 2013

Wedding Checklist

The BRIDE's Checklist

1. Bridal / Andaman     -     Weddingku Gallery

2. Photoshoot   -    Weddingku Gallery (actual day, in & outdoor)

3. Caterer         -    My beloved aunt 

4. Logistics       -    D' Kayangan (tables/chairs/tentage etc)        

5. Kendarat       -   Q Factor      

6. Deco             -   Daundco         

7. Gubahan       -    Love Createz

8. Bunga Pahar, Sirih Dara & Bunga Rampai      -    Gubahan Klasique

9. Henna           -    Syraskins

10. Music / Entertainment     -     Dann's Entertainment
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 PENDING

11. Invitations     -  DIY still in progress. May just end up getting from JB though. Heh.

12. Baju for Family, Flowergirls & Bridesmaids   -  sourcing for fabric. Asking around for quotes.

13. Berkat   -  still sourcing.

14. Berkat for Kiddos   -  not necessary. dont feel like having, for now. May just end up getting some at the last minute. Heh.

15. Rental of MPH    -   can only book in June. so.. waiting.

16. Car   -  thinking of borrowing my Boss' Audi. Hehe. so.. fingers crossed.

17. His ring   -  waiting for GSS'13. Hopefully platinums will be on sale too.

18. Barang2 Gubahan  -  waiting for GSS'13.

19. Register ROMM / Book Kadi   -  can only book in August. so.. waiting.

20. Marriage Preparation Course   -  probably going in June/July.

21. Cake  -  no cake. I hate bloody fondant. Sure, looks awesome & absolutely dreamy. But taste horrible. People (speaking of myself) will just tear off the hard-as-rock sugar block and dump.. then chew miserably on the sponge, or whatever that's left. BUTTTT may end up just succumbing to getting one gorgeous cake.. at the last minute. Heh.

22. Photobooth - fun kan! personally I do feel like engaging. But my dad's bent on not making my big day looks like a... circus. (no offence to anyone ya.) Well, lets see if i can make him change his thoughts somehow. In any case, I dont really mind either coz this is optional.

23. Ice cream parlour - another fun thing! personally I really feel like engaging. But my dad's bent on not making my big day looks like a... circus. (no offence to anyone ya.) Well, lets see if i can make him change his thoughts. In any case, I dont really mind either coz this is optional.